I shut down the separator, then idle the engine to engage, and rev it back up to unload. I always engage the separator at low idle and disengage it at high idle. As for your feeder drop problem, you likely have a poppet leaking in the header lift valve. It's been a while but I don't think it's too costly or too difficult a job to remedy. Replace the feeder chain after you've shortened it a couple times and the links become worn. HTH